Using the Internet is usually a positive experience for parents and children. It's fun and exciting to learn about a wide variety of topics, communicate with family and friends by e-mail, surf the Web, and chat with other computer users.

Sometimes, however, the Internet can be a dangerous place for young people, and unless you take precautions as a parent, your child can come across material you find objectionable or even begin communicating with suspicious individuals who do not have your child's best interests at heart.

Therefore, it's really important to give your child or teen rules for the information superhighway so they can surf safely. Remind your children that your rules apply whether they are using the Internet at home, at school, or at a friend's house. Some of the basics include:

• Establish a main account in your name with a secret password so you can keep better control over who can access the Internet in your house and what material is viewed.
• Keep the computer in a high-traffic area used by the whole family to make it easier for you to keep an eye on your child's Internet activities, and discourage online exploration behind closed doors.
• Be open with your children and let them know your concerns. Encourage them to trust their instincts and reassure them that they can come to you if they discover anything online that makes them the least bit uncomfortable.
• Consider using blocking software that gives you various levels of parental input or control. You can investigate different packages by entering 'protective software' or 'blocking software' in an online search engine.

Remember, the best tools kids have for surfing safely are the values that role models like you teach them.

Resources:

For more tips, advice and information on Cyber Safety, including how to set up a Family Internet Agreement, please check out the following resources:

• Canada Safety Council:
  • Safety in Cyberspace
  • Online Safety Rules
  • New Online Dangers
• Industry Canada:
  • Canada's Children in a Wired World: The parent's view
• RCMP:
  • Web Safety: Information for Parents and Children
  • Canadian Strategy to Promote Safe, Wise and Responsible Internet Use
• Criminal Intelligence Service Canada:
  • Sexual Exploitation of Children
• National Missing Children Services:
  • Strangers in Cyberspace